as the saying goes, male chasese female likes climbing a mountain, female chasese male like eating a piece of cake. toastmaster, dear friends, have you ever chased someone? I have. when I was in high school, there was a boy, very handsome and smart. every time he talked to me, my heart putong putong putong, every time he talked to other girls...... I knew I  liked him. then I started to approached him without hesitation. this math is so difficult, please! I can't open the bottle, please! my mobile phone is power off, please! over and over, I walk into his life successfully, next step was to break into his heart. it was a beautiful night, the moonlight was bright, the playground was quite, I asked him to take a walk together, hey, i like you. he said sorry, I love someone else.

as the saying goes you can't fall down in the same place twice. I swore I would not do this stupid thing again.When I was in university, there was a boy, very handsome and smart. every time he talked to me my heart putong putong putong. every time he talked to other girls...... I knew I liked him. but I couldn't do the stupid thing so I had kept my love a secret for 3 years. till the graduation party, I was drunk. he toasted me, cheer my good friend. I cried, you know nothing,  I never want to be your good friend I want to be your girl friend all the time. he kept quite. the second day, he went to guangxi and I went back to Xiamen, I got a message form him I am sorry I was afraid of losing my best female friend, so I couldn't tell you I love you.

as the saying goes life is like a box of chocolates, you never konw what you gonna get. when i start my first job, there was a boy, very handsome and smart. guess what happened? aha, I loved him. however at the same time, my mom arranged blind dates for me, she said as the saying goes for women, good marriage is much more important than good career, you need a rich husband. my anti said, as the saying goes don't miss the whole forest because of one tree, give yourself more choice. and my grandma said as the saying goes if the old dog barks, it gives counsel. listen to elder's suggestion. no, I can't. someone is here. how can I date other people. I suddenly realize miss love is much more terrible than falling down, I need to stand up, I need to pursue my own happiness.  then I tried my best to change myself to  be attractive to win the boy's heart. and now he is the daddy of my 3 year old son.

this is my strory about female chases male. absolutely different from what the saying goes it doesn't like eating a piece of cake, it more like climbing mountains. when I did as the old saying goes, I failed I missed my love. when  I didn't care too much about what other people said, I followed my heart I kept going on, finally, I reach the top. I slowly understand what other people said sounds reasonable, but suggestions are only suggestions.  it's only you, know what you're searching for,  it's only you, know how strong you are, it's only you, should be responsible for your life. .give up is easy, but only stand up again and again can make yourself better and better. 2017, I stood on the club stage, told district stage hey I I I love you, it said sorry, I love someone else. 2018, I stood on the area stage, told district stage, hey I love you it said sorry I love someone else. and now I am standing on the division stage, I still want to tell district stage hey I love you, no matter what it repeats, I succeed, keep  moving forward step by step,  I already become a better speaker, it is what i really want. my dear friends, we persist, we grow up, we are all the champion of ourselves.