俞敏洪说，
一个人如果八面玲珑、能说会道，特别会来事儿，并不是情商高。
真正的情商高，是这个人，走到人前面后，被无限信任。也善于把好的东西分享给他人，在别人有困难时，也愿意去帮助别人。这样的情商，放在人群中，永远不会被排斥。
八面玲珑、会来事儿、精通各种人际交往的方法和技术，只是“术”的层面。而道的层面，是人品、德行将心比心。
百术不如一诚。
Yu minhong said,
If a person is smooth and eloquent, especially good at things, it is not a high eq.
The real eq is high, is this person, after walking to the front of the people, be infinite trust. I am also good at sharing good things with others and willing to help others when they are in trouble. Such emotional intelligence, put in a crowd, will never be excluded.
Being versatile, adept at all kinds of interpersonal communication methods and techniques are just the level of "art". And the level of the way, is the character, virtue care.
Honesty is better than skill.
