After four months of internship, I found that Beijing is a place that always gives me pressure. Sometimes I feel disgusted, sometimes I feel that I have been thinking too little for a long time. But he didn't want to leave. The most important thing was that he had a simple rule: either he was driven by the city to fight, or he had to fight when he was hungry.
First-tier cities are like that. Hometown is only suitable for the elderly, young people cherish the brain can work, willing to work hard for the past few years.
Ability determines how far you can go. Maybe the early choices will be painful. The process is more exhausting. The accumulation of quantity reaches qualitative leap. Dreams come not by chance. Standing on the shoulder of predecessors to see things, you can find their lack of what? How long before it can be made up. You can find out what others can't and can't do in the limited time. It is also a key step in the process of winning the final. Therefore, the new dimensions of thought and the realm must be spurted out after numerous environmental trials.
Actually, it is very painful to do anything at the beginning, because in the face of interests and feelings, there must be give up. Confused, hesitant, afraid of your heart's lack of power, unable to make due choices. What do people seek for physical and spiritual enjoyment through money? Eat, drink, and be merry all day long. Do everything.
There are different people with different aspirations on the road trip. It takes a long time for me to focus on one thing, even for the nearest relatives around. I don't even have time to call my parents to greet them.
You can't make up your mind, or you can only do half of everything. And you end up with nothing. People can have ambitions and desires, and give up everything for money, power and status. But everything develops from nothing to nothing. Keep in mind at this stage that all leaves fall into place. The moment of old death all became one, and only one body remained.
So, should pick up, should see the light to see the light, right and wrong, no more than a reading between.
From Beijing to xinyang, the taste on both sides has a feeling of heat and cold. Xinyang pension, Beijing desperately. Don't live in a small city until you are 40 years old.
Today's economic development and social development must have sufficient confidence and courage, and have to constantly hone their own. Education and ability are the prerequisite of how long you will live. Is also the only capital of struggle. If you don't have enough confidence to enter the society, keep studying. It's not the tens of thousands, the hundreds of thousands of wages that you can get away with until you're ready to work for the company, but you can create your own intellectual property. There is no substitute for others. It's the foundation of your growth.
It's important to look at things, as someone said, and your circle of friends will change a lot after you turn 30. Speech and behavior, life style. It's not the money that determines you, it's the state of mind, the aura. Networking, emotional intelligence, IQ.
In the last year of college, I put on my schedule and spent a year and a half to stabilize myself. To tell you the truth, these years of learning was really painful, and I paid twice the price but got only half the harvest. These years really bothered my parents.
Three months ago in take an examination of grind with continue to practice go up sway vacillate, always think what study, in the end ability is put in that, learn what is iceberg, the first-tier city feels diploma and oneself professional ability are in vulnerable group apparently. So, I decided to go back to school and keep reading, although this gamble will be very difficult, compared to the pain of choice, persistence is more painful. It's not easy to fight a time chase.
The last year and a half, work hard, no brainwashing chicken soup, no love, ideal, do not want the past and the future. Practice with ease. One thing for a year and a half. English, major course.
The mountain high road is long, all the way must be covered with wounds, remember, anything is not hard really do not have time and opportunity again.
Ma zhe interprets the philosophy of life: any development has its pros and cons, feelings, career, interests and so on will show the essence in the end. What you think, what you do, what you aim, and what you achieve. Look around more people and things, their future in which circle, which team can develop. What can you bring to the people in the future circle and how can they react to you?
Character, behavior, way of doing things, thinking dimensions. Is the way of life.
Do not struggle for time gain and loss, adjust your mentality to the future
I have seen the development advantages and potential of Beijing. In the past three years, from the fourth to the third tier to the first-tier cities, I have been running from north to south. I am also thinking about what I lack, the biggest contradiction and the heart trouble at present.
On the whole, I still don't want to leave here. Although I was lonely and confused when I was alone, what I did in this year was nonsense. However, the opportunity, urban resource circle, development mode and people and things in Beijing touched me a lot. At times, I felt that I was not able to handle the pressure, and that I was still in the process of struggling. But I have seen the ups and downs and development of the next five years. So now we have to take heart, internalize the heart, externalize the action, and try to improve ourselves to adapt to the place.
Maybe go south to graduate school in two years. However, this is not to throw in the towel to Beijing. On the day of success, it is bound to return to the earth.
Life is a period of ups and downs. Flowers bloom and fall. This is inevitable.
Second, appropriately grasp the strategic thinking of advance and retreat, constantly summarize the experience of the past lack and gap, do not dispute the length of time, open heart, put aside selfish and worry efforts to fight.
Third, when to struggle, when to take heart, with what kind of mentality to face the gain and loss, their hearts must have a definite number.
Always think about your options. Good strategy makes a decisive victory thousands of miles away.
The choice is actually very painful, insist on more painful, because we are always using some dream or something to paralyze their spirit, to force themselves to pursue what they want, so this age must lower posture, in order to seek knowledge, as well as the desire to solve the heart and the sense of inferiority to want to complete the process.
Man is a very complicated creature, because emotions control one's mind. So any time you want to get what you want, you have to give it up. It's not that people don't have dreams, but they are always deceiving themselves. Limit your desires for a variety of reasons.
To put it simply, you don't want to create value for your clients with your passion and end up with nothing.
