It is a truth universally acknowledged that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want a wife.(Pride and Prejudice)

Love is a wonderful trip for the most of adults,dating,flowers,movie and so on.We always swear that you are my lover,I love you for ever.In the summer evening,after eating we dance tango together in the square.

Alough you are the perfection in the lover's eyes,you still care for figure,face,hair and cloth.At all we hope Everything is OK.

But when we are aged enough,parents will tell us ,again and again, it was time to start a family,so we are married.

A wedding ceremony is amazing,church,music,flowers,friends,applauding,vows and blessing.

Bob, do you take Nancy to be your wedded wife, to live together in marriage?  Do you promise to love her,  comfort her, honor and keep her for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness  and health, and forsaking all others, be  faithful only to her so  long as you both shall live?

I do.

Nancy, do you take Bob to be your wedded husband to live together in marriage?  Do you promise to love him,  comfort him, honor and keep him for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness  and health and forsaking all others, be  faithful only to him so long as you both  shall live?

I do.

Generally speaking,it is a pleasure when the beginning of marriage.We are planning for the future,designing  a honeymoon trip and having candlelit gourmet meals in a romantic setting.We enjoy each other,no worrying about money,no children,no pain.Evthing is fully of hope,as if the future belongs to us.

However it is going by,we find some difficult things,such as what do we have eating afternoon,who do wash the dishes,and who clean the bedroom.Soonly,we found life is not easy.The true life is coming to you. Myths about love are generally escaping.

Is it true that  marriage is the grave of love? Nowadays,many changes in family values are taking place.China is experiencing growing divorce rates.Maybe there are many reasons resulting to it.But I think you are the owner of  marriage.

How should we do?How should we keep our marriage to be fresh?It is a very important issue which is worthy to study in all our life.

Three aspects ,I think,should be emphasized.

Understanding.

For a man,how to understand your wife?All you need to understand your spouse is to know her needs by heart.Love and friendship is all a woman needs_before or after marriage.However,it is easier said than done.If you really love your woman,go out and celebrate your marriage,say "I love you honey" and trust her and win back her trust.

Respect.

Every individual is different from others.We should respect their customs,habits,faith and culture.Facing a various of people,tolerating is necessary especially to our spouse.

Appreciation.

It's easy to take friends and family for  granted, which is why showing  appreciation is so important. As Voltaire  said, "Appreciation is a wonderful thing: It makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well." When you take the time to  express thanks and gratitude, you help  build and strengthen bonds of trust and  love.

Marriage is like a besieged city. People who are outside the city wish to enter while people who are inside the city wish to leave.

When we are lover,advantages usually are found.We praise each other.We found it is perfection.But it is changed after marriage.We found another.His cloth is dirty,hair too long,shoes too smelly to smell.

I desire to grow old with you without paying