松弛感的人，她的掌控欲低于她的掌控力 People with a sense of looseness there is often a commonality , that is her desire to be in control is lower than her control .
To the extreme , is a kind of banishment of the mind .
具有松弛感的人往往有一个共性：
即她的掌控欲低于她的掌控力。
往极致说就是有一种谪仙的心态。
In everything she does , she tries her best to push for the good , but she knows in her heart , no matter how this thing turns out , she didn ' t care that much .
做每件事时，她都尽心尽力往好的方向推进。但是她心里很清楚这件事情无论结果如何，她都没那么在意。
She likes to be a bystander , an outsider .她非常喜欢做一个旁观者、一个事外人。
