We live in a capitalistic society that's overwhelmed by kinds of stuff, economics, entertainment, sports, education, science. And most of us might not have sharp eyes to pick out what is suitable for us, or how to choose the right one. To achieve what we want, we catch all of them in a very short time, yet eventually, do not get what we really want, and do not know what the main point is. Then, the time goes through day by day.
One thing that similar to the message situation we are facing to is the friends we made. Due to the rapid change, huge challenge of reality, people try best to meet a variety of people not in the same industry, to add much contact list at their phone. They call them friends, they call them relationships. They figure it's a good way to show their capability in social activity, to impress others how many friends they have. They hang out with those friends at the expense of their short and long run. Finally, might not be able to find someone to help him out when in a harsh situation.
What a right friend is? What a right friend can do?
When you have trouble, at any time, at any place, she would reach out there to bail you out.
When you make mistakes, she feels not embarrassed to tell you what she thought, to proof you to right, to lead you straight.
When you get distraught if something doesn't work out the way you planned, she would be there to help you move on, to motivate you to fuel through
When you gonna do any crazy thing, she would do it together with you, even she's not really like to.
When you plan to do any important thing, she would give you productive advice and just stand by you.
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I call that right friend. A guy really cares about you, love you, support you, trust you, to be there with you. When you are together, you feel free and comfortable, chat randomly what you want to.
Today, I thought I've found the right friend I expect in my life, hopefully. She went with me for shopping at HK, for eating when back. We stayed together for nearly the whole day, talking with each other about our daily life, our work status, our resolution, our goal, our annoyance, our behavior... I am not exactly sure whether it's really a right friend, a productive social interaction sometimes, cuz we have the same weakness, same bad habits, even cannot control own deed, not in a good way, possibly. What I'm looking for is a person that we can exchange our value, our thought, what we saw, what we think, what we expect to, then how to move on step by step, to support each other to get progress.
A right friend, I think I'm on the way. Don't be afraid of failure, don't be afraid of making mistakes. Believe in what you expect, and just keep on it. You are gonna make it one day. Faith is the bird that feels the light when the dawn is still work says by Tagore. (信念是黎明之前，天还没亮时就能感觉到光明的鸟）.
... Not the end...
