2020-03-23

quarantine

隔离的第一天信誓旦旦，第二天就要撞墙了!

不同的家庭提出了分享了以下经验。原文少第8条。

1. Hold a family meeting
   Heather Bowen, a mom of two from Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, says when facing an unexpected homeschool situation, family planning is key.

"Talk to your children about this 'new normal,' and communicate with them that while they may be at home, there are still assignments that must be completed in a timely manner," said Bowen, who blogs about homeschooling her daughters, Shaylie, 15, and Nevaeh, 14, at Mom for all Seasons. "Since your child is coming from a structured school environment, I would definitely continue on with providing structure for both them and you."
1.举行家庭会议
来自南卡罗来纳州默特尔比奇（Myrtle Beach）的两个孩子的妈妈希瑟·鲍恩（Heather Bowen）说，面对意外的家庭学校状况，家庭计划是关键。

鲍文说：“与您的孩子讨论这种'新常态'，并与他们沟通，尽管他们可能在家中，但仍有一些任务必须及时完成。” 15岁的Nevaeh和14岁的Nevaeh，全天候在妈妈那里。 “由于您的孩子来自结构化的学校环境，所以我绝对会继续为他们和您提供结构。”

2. Create a daily schedule
   Bowen says it's important to have set hours for school, meals, chores and other daily activities.

Maria Chamberlain, a mom of seven who has been homeschooling for 29 years, agrees.

"Many routine activities are now disrupted, and that's going to be an emotional process for everyone," Chamberlain told TODAY Parents. "Kids are going to be disappointed, as are parents, not to have their normal routine."

Chamberlain, who lives in Strafford, New Hampshire, suggests talking together as a family about the coronavirus outbreak and how it's affecting everyone.
"Then, decide on a schedule together as a team," said Chamberlain. "Let the kids help plan it and it will run smoother."
2.创建每日时间表
鲍恩说，重要的是要安排上学，进餐，做家务和其他日常活动的时间。

玛丽亚·张伯伦（Maria Chamberlain）是七个孩子的母亲，她已经在家上课29年了，他对此表示赞同。

张伯伦对《今日父母》说：“现在许多日常活动都被打乱了，这对每个人来说都是一个激动人心的过程。” “孩子们会像父母一样失望，不能过正常的生活。”

住在新罕布什尔州斯特拉福德的张伯伦建议与家人一起讨论冠状病毒的爆发及其对每个人的影响。
张伯伦说：“然后，以团队的形式共同决定时间表。” “让孩子们帮助计划它，它将运行得更加顺利。”

3. Ask your school district for support
   "I would highly suggest that you reach out to your local school district and determine what resources, in terms of curriculum, online learning platforms, supplies, etc., are available to you," Bowen suggested. "Talk to your child's teacher and find out exactly what is expected from them in terms of assignments and school work during this time."
   3.向您的学区寻求支持
   鲍恩建议：“我强烈建议您与当地学区取得联系，并确定可以使用的资源，包括课程，在线学习平台，用品等。” “与您孩子的老师交谈，并准确地了解他们在这段时间的任务和学校工作方面的期望。”

4. Help kids create a learning environment
   Leah Duke, a Montana mom of three who has been homeschooling since 2004, says it's important to remember that each child learns differently and may perform better in a different work environment.

"Help them create their own work space — at the kitchen table, on their bed, in a comfy chair in the living room — and know that you may find a rotation works well for different subjects, especially for those students accustomed to visiting a different classroom and teacher for math, English and electives," said Duke.

4.帮助孩子创造学习环境
利亚·杜克（Leah Duke）是蒙大纳州（Montana）的三岁妈妈，自2004年以来一直在家上学。他说，记住每个孩子的学习方式不同，并且在不同的工作环境中表现可能更好，这一点很重要。

“帮助他们创建自己的工作空间-在厨房的桌子上，在床上，在客厅的舒适椅子上-并知道您可能会发现轮换对于不同的科目非常有效，特别是对于习惯于拜访不同学生的学生而言 数学，英语和选修课的教室和老师。”

5. Don't be afraid to bribe 'em
   "Some students are self-motivated," said Duke. "But some may need time limits or incentives like, 'You need to finish ABC before you can XYZ.' Not every student is a morning person, but it's much easier to accomplish what you need to first thing, before the whole day slips by, so that's a great case for building incentives into your new routine — just as we encourage our children to eat their vegetables before they can have a slice of cake."
   Bowen suggests incentives like time with electronics or playtime once schoolwork is complete, and suggests making expectations clear to kids so there's no confusion about what they need to get finished to earn their reward.

"For younger children, a dry erase board, where you can list out all assignments and chores for the day and then check them off as they go, may be most effective," added Bowen.
5.不要害怕贿赂他们
杜克说：“有些学生有上进心。” “但是有些人可能需要时间限制或激励措施，例如'在完成XYZ之前必须完成ABC。” 并非每个学生都是早起的人，但是在整天溜走之前，完成第一件事需要的事情要容易得多，因此这是在您的新习惯中建立激励措施的一个很好的案例-就像我们鼓励孩子们吃他们的孩子一样 蔬菜才可以吃一片蛋糕。”
鲍恩（Bowen）建议采取激励措施，例如在完成学业后使用电子设备或娱乐时间，并建议向孩子们明确期望，这样就不会对他们需要完成什么才能获得奖励感到困惑。

鲍恩补充说：“对于年幼的孩子来说，用一块干擦板，可以列出当天的所有作业和琐事，然后逐一检查，这可能是最有效的。”

6. Take breaks
   Amber Mathison, founder of ABC's to ACT's, an online educational resource for parents, teachers and homeschoolers, says downtime is just as helpful in getting through the school day as a schedule.

"Whether it's while they're changing classes or while they're waiting for other students to finish their work, your child has several moments of downtime throughout a normal school day," said Mathison. "Remember to give them the same while they're at home. Believe me, when you're struggling through a math assignment, a quick 15-minute break can do wonders for both your patience and their ability to get through the material."
6.休息一下
ABC to ACT's的ABC创办人Amber Mathison表示，停工时间对于安排上学日的帮助与时间表一样有帮助。

“无论是在换班还是在等待其他学生完成工作时，您的孩子在正常的上课时间都会有几秒钟的停机时间，” Mathison说。 “记住，当他们在家时也给他们同样的东西。相信我，当您在完成数学作业时遇到困难时，只需短短15分钟的休息时间就可以为您的耐心和他们理解材料的能力带来奇迹。”

7. Make it fun
   Florida mom Wendy Moores has been homeschooling her daughters, Melody and Anika, since they were in fifth grade. Today, Moores' daughters are in college and asked to continue homeschooling for their collegiate years.

Moores says everything is an opportunity to learn, and being at home with your kids gives you the chance to try some outside-the-box ways to absorb information.

"Grocery shopping can be lessons on everything from color, shape and sizes for the young ones to multiplication and percentages for your older ones," said Moores. "Taking a long walk can be a lesson in botany or biology. And those experiences that you seek out become field trips that will be a blast and something special because you are schooling your children."
Moores also recommends taking lessons outdoors.

"There were days that my daughters and I were crawling up the walls, said Moores, "so we did our spelling practice out on the driveway with chalk and we gathered rocks in our yard to practice math."
7.有趣
佛罗里达的妈妈温迪·摩尔斯（Wendy Moores）上了五年级，就一直在家给女儿Melody和Anika上学。 如今，摩尔人的女儿正在上大学，并被要求在大学期间继续在家上学。

摩尔说，一切都是学习的机会，与孩子一起在家使您有机会尝试一些现成的方式来吸收信息。

摩尔斯说：“从年轻人的肤色，形状和大小到年长的人的乘积和百分比，可以买到杂货的所有课程。” “散步很长一段时间可以是植物学或生物学的课程。而您寻求的经历会成为实地考察，这将是一场爆炸，并且因为您正在教育孩子而变得特别。”
摩尔还建议在户外上课。

摩尔说：“有时候我和我的女儿正在爬墙，所以我们用粉笔在车道上进行拼写练习，然后在院子里捡石头练习数学。”

9. Give kids the reins
   "At the end of the day, it doesn't really matter all that much if they finished their math work before their science," said Mathison. "Let them decide which subject they'd like to dive into first, or better yet, grab a spiral notebook or a piece of paper and simply write out the assignments they need to finish for the day. Let them work through the list in whatever order they'd like, checking them off as they go."
   9.给孩子们辔
   麦蒂森说：“归根结底，在科学之前完成数学工作并不重要。” “让他们决定自己想首先学习哪个主题，或者更好的是，拿一本螺旋笔记本或一张纸，然后简单地写下他们当天需要完成的作业。让他们在清单中浏览任何内容 订购他们想要的东西，然后将其检查掉。”

10. Do your own homework
    Moores said in her eight years of homeschooling, she's learned the importance of taking time to make a plan of her own for how she will handle the flow of her days.

"You need to do your homework so you can show them how to do theirs," said Moores. "Schedule out lessons and read their textbooks before they do. Have a good lesson planner as a scheduling tool — that's a must."

10.做自己的作业
摩尔说，在她八年的自学期间，她已经了解了花时间制定自己的计划以应对自己的日流的重要性。

摩尔说：“您需要做功课，才能向他们展示如何做功课。” “安排课程并事先阅读他们的教科书。有一个好的课程计划者作为计划工具，这是必须的。”

11. Hold a daily wrap-up meeting
    Erica Arndt, who blogs at Confessions of a Homeschooler, said one key to her success as a home educator is a daily meeting.

"I find it helpful to have a 10-15 minute daily wrap-up meeting at the end of the school day to go over my children's work," said Arndt, who has been homeschooling her 17-, 15-, 14- and 11-year-old children since they were in preschool. "They each pick a time slot and I sit down with them one-on-one. We discuss any questions that they had, check to make sure everything was completed and grade anything that needs grading."
"Daily meetings help me stay on top of grading so I am not overwhelmed," the Colorado mom continued. "And, it helps my children get a clear sense of accomplishment for today and know what will be required tomorrow."
11.举行每日总结会议
在《家庭学生的自白》上发表博客的埃里卡·阿恩特（Erica Arndt）说，成为家庭教育家成功的关键之一就是每天开会。

“我发现在上学一天结束时每天举行10-15分钟的总结会议来处理孩子们的工作是有帮助的，” Arndt说，她一直在为她的17岁，15岁，14岁和11岁的孩子上课 岁的孩子，因为他们在学龄前。 “他们每个人都选择一个时隙，我与他们一对一地坐下来。我们讨论他们所遇到的任何问题，检查以确保一切都已完成，并对需要评分的任何内容进行评分。”
科罗拉多州的妈妈继续说：“每天的会议帮助我保持评分最高，这样我就不会感到不知所措。” “而且，它可以帮助我的孩子们对今天取得明显的成就感，并知道明天需要做什么。”

12. Give yourself grace
    "You've been thrown into a situation that is unfamiliar and somewhat scary," said Mathison. "Your 'school day' will not be perfect, and that's OK. Just try to remember that you're both adjusting to something new and there will be some bumps along the way."

"This may be an unexpected occurrence," added Moores, "but I would be so bold as to say that it will be the blessing you never thought you wanted."
12.给自己恩典
麦蒂森说：“您陷入了一种陌生而又有些恐怖的境地。” “您的'上学日'将不是完美的，没关系。请记住，您正在适应新的事物，并且在途中会遇到一些麻烦。”

摩尔补充说：“这可能是意料之外的事情，但是我要大胆地说，这将是您从未想过想要的祝福。”
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