There have lots of people who always said it's for you and do some thing regardless your own opinion.
I still rember the thing that happend in 2016 because the person said it's for me but the truth is she didn't want to do the things which she need to do
So she want give the responsibility for mean,and the reason it's for me.
At that time although i'm still not has much experience but i also can obviously found her's intention.
And I just reject she's request.
In this matter although the person said she's original intention it's for me,but i can identify her intention it's not her real thoughts.
But in some others things,there also have a few people they real want to for us,like our friends,parents and others people closed to us.
what's the diffrent between this two kind of people,I think in the first case,the people who said for you,she's intention just want some body do the job it's for herself,but she didn't want to say it directly,so she find a bad excuse.
And in the second section,those person they really want to help us,but they made a mistake that's they use the view and experience which happend on their own,so they of course thought the world's color it's like what they have seen.
However in the world every person it‘s individual,and every body have their own opinion’,concept and diffrent experience,so which is really good for them is depend on themself.
So when we said for you,thought more carefully if it's really for you.
