你心里装载着外人的形象，装载着政客的形象、首相的形象、你信奉的神灵形象、太太和孩子的形象……你所看到的，只是心像。
这种心像是在关系中通过恐惧或希望而塑造出来的。你与太太或丈夫有两性欢愉，你们还有快乐、愤怒、谄媚、惬意……沉闷的家庭生活带给你的一切，在你心中塑造了伴侣的形象，你就是装着心像来看待伴侣的。同样，你的伴侣也装着你的心像。所以，你与伴侣的关系、你与政客的关系，其实是两个心像之间的关系，对吧？事实的确如此。这两个心像是意念、欢乐等等所塑造出来的，这样的心像之间怎么会有爱呢？
所以，人与人的关系，不论远近，其实是心像、符号、记忆之间的关系。在这种关系中，哪里有真爱可言呢？
——克里希那穆提《生命书：365观心日课》（The Book of Life: Daily Meditations with Krishnamurti）
How Can There Be Real Love?
The image you have about a person, the image you have about your politicians, the prime minister, your god, your wife, your children—that image is being looked at.
And that image has been created through your relationship, or through your fears, or through your hopes. The sexual and other pleasures you have had with your wife, your husband, the anger, the flattery, the comfort, and all the things that your family life brings—a deadly life it is—have created an image about your wife or husband. With that image you look. Similarly, your wife or husband has an image about you. So the relationship between you and your wife or husband, between you and the politician is really the relationship between these two images. Right? That is a fact. How can two images which are the result of thought, of pleasure and so on, have any affection or love?
So the relationship between two individuals, very close together or very far, is a relationship of images, symbols, memories. And in that, how can there be real love?
MARCH 17
