【远离戏剧性】戏剧性的冲突放在影视剧里好看，扣人心弦。但放在现实生活中，只是糟糕的一团乱麻。尽量让自己远离戏剧性的冲突，至少，沉默可以作为你的武器。许多事情心里有数就可以，大喊大叫，痛哭发疯，歇斯底里，谁会真正关心你呢？人在情绪激动的时候，无法控制自己的语言和行为，而冲动情况下的所作所为并不容易被其他人原谅。永远不要伤害自己、非正常性地暴露自己来测试对方的所谓的爱。爱你的人不会让你把自己置于此地，平淡、稳定才是持久的幸福。

Choosing silence over engaging in drama. allows you to maintain your dignity and composure. It shows maturity and self-control. Drama often involves heightened emotions and hasty words, which can lead to miscommunication. Silence reduces the risk of saying something that might be regretted later.

【不要让欲望主宰自己】不要显得自己是一个轻浮且随便的人。

Uncontrolled lust can lead to inappropriate behavior. By managing lust, we can build and sustain relationships based on respect, trust, and emotional intimacy. Controlling lust aligns with maintaining personal integrity and adhering to one's values and principles. It helps us stay true to our moral and ethical beliefs.

【感觉到难就对了】迎难而上，最后收获的一定是成长和全新的自己。

Most things worth having in life always come from hard choices. Pain helps you grow; problems help you level up.

【人生不过三万天】你是珍贵的，你的每一分每一秒都是珍贵的。

You only have a certain limited amount of days. Why spend them sitting in sadness? Why spend them dwelling?